Yours, Mine and Ours … No More
Mother and Father divorce. Mother and Father have three Boys together.
Mother and Fiance move in together with the Boys, Fiance’s child and a child of Mother’s from a previous relationship.
Mother and Fiance have two more children together. And become engaged.
This growing blended family reportedly works very well.
Then Father gets a new job out of state.
He informs Mother that he will be taking the Boys with him.
Mother obtains a court order awarding her sole custody of the Boys and providing for them to remain in their home state with Mother.
This Father cannot accept.
Father takes the Boys for visitation at his parents’ house.
Mother calls Father to tell him that she wants the Boys returned.
Father drives over to Mother’s and Fiance’s home.
Father then allegedly reveals a gun and shoots Mother to death … in front of the other children.
Father is arrested for Mother’s murder.
And this blended family is torn apart.
The Boys presently live with Father’s parents. Fiance tries to visit them every other weekend.
Mother’s child from a previous relationship is with some relatives of hers.
Mother’s and Fiance’s children are with Fiance, undoubtedly missing their Mother and siblings.
Read more in this San Jose Mercury News column: Herhold: A lethal child custody battle.
