General legal information from Fort Lauderdale / West Palm Beach based family law attorney Janet Langjahr, serving, with her network, all of Florida, New York and New Jersey
Eighty-two year old Husband owns used auto parts business.
Husband has stroke.
Wife gets legal guardianship of Husband.
Husband is admitted to nursing home.
Eighty year old Wife discharges Husband from nursing home.
Wife rejects in-home nursing care.
Husband and Wife live in back room of Husband’s business establishment…
In conditions unfit for human habitation.
Police find Husband, unattended, at his business establishment, malnourished, with numerous bedsores, afflicted by dementia, and wearing soiled clothing.
Wife is arrested for abusing Husband.
Wife represents herself at trial.
Wife maintains, in essence, that Husband is fine and should be allowed to return home.
Wife is convicted of abusing Husband.
Wife is ordered to relinquish legal guardianship of Husband to Wife’s and Husband’s daughter or the state.
Wife is denied unsupervised visits with Husband.
Wife is sentenced to eight years’ confinement in prison, suspended, with probation.
If Wife disobeys any of the court’s orders, Wife’s suspended sentence could be reinstated.
Husband is committed to a nursing home.
Wife reportedly states that Husband is unhappy in the nursing home and will be retaining his own counsel to procure his discharge.
Husband and Wife have at least $1 million in assets.
Read more in this Delaware News Journal article: Delaware crime: Husband abuse gets wife eight years’ probation.
UK Husband owns roughly 300 acre farm.
Husband and Wife have stormy marriage.
Wife tells friends that Husband is violent with her.
Husband also reportedly threatens Wife
Wife e-mails one friend that Husband claims to have associates “who could get rid of bodies”.
Husband reportedly has affair.
Wife discusses divorce (in 2007).
Husband offers Wife a settlement of UK 600,000 pounds.
Wife, however, rejects that offer, holding out for UK 800,000 pounds.
Shortly after, Wife goes missing, never to be seen or heard from again, dead or alive.
Husband allegedly does not report Wife as missing for five whole days.
Husband is charged with murder.
Husband’s guilt or innocence is now up to the jury.
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Mother and Father divorce. Mother and Father have three Boys together.
Mother and Fiance move in together with the Boys, Fiance’s child and a child of Mother’s from a previous relationship.
Mother and Fiance have two more children together. And become engaged.
This growing blended family reportedly works very well.
Then Father gets a new job out of state.
He informs Mother that he will be taking the Boys with him.
Mother obtains a court order awarding her sole custody of the Boys and providing for them to remain in their home state with Mother.
This Father cannot accept.
Father takes the Boys for visitation at his parents’ house.
Mother calls Father to tell him that she wants the Boys returned.
Father drives over to Mother’s and Fiance’s home.
Father then allegedly reveals a gun and shoots Mother to death … in front of the other children.
Father is arrested for Mother’s murder.
And this blended family is torn apart.
The Boys presently live with Father’s parents. Fiance tries to visit them every other weekend.
Mother’s child from a previous relationship is with some relatives of hers.
Mother’s and Fiance’s children are with Fiance, undoubtedly missing their Mother and siblings.
Read more in this San Jose Mercury News column: Herhold: A lethal child custody battle.
Couple separate.
Husband condemns divorce and threatens Wife numerous times.
Wife gets injunction for protection against domestic violence, or restraining order, against Husband.
Wife requests that Husband be allowed only supervised visitation with their three and five year old Children.
Court, however, orders unsupervised visitation for Husband, including weekly overnight timesharing with the couple’s three and five year old Children.
Exchanges are conducted at Wife’s Mother’s home for her safety.
Divorce goes through.
During latest visitation, Husband sends increasingly disturbing text messages to Wife, in which he seems to try to lure Wife to his location.
One message alarms Wife and she calls police.
Upon investigation at Wife’s Mother’s home, police discover Wife’s Mother and both Children dead. Wife’s Mother was shot and Children were stabbed to death.
Husband is charged with “aggravated” murder.
Husband’s defense seems to be that Wife divorced him.
Husband is convicted of murdering all three victims and is sentenced to death.
Read more in this Cleveland WJW-TV Fox 8 news article: Ex-Wife: Mammone Admitted Killing Their Kids, Her Mom and this Canton[OH] Repository article: James Mammone III gets death sentence for murdering children, former mother-in-law.
Mother and Father are divorced.
Child welfare agencies in two states are familiar with the family.
Mother is initially awarded custody of their three Children.
Later, Mother loses custody of Children and Father is awarded custody of Children.
Mother is allowed visitation supervised by child welfare personnel at the child welfare agency’s facilities.
Father has other children from other relationships. Father’s visitation with them is reportedly restricted and he was allegedly arrested for injuring one of his other children previously.
While Children are in Father’s care, Father allegedly gets drunk while “playing” with a gun … on Christmas Eve.
All three Children are present at this time, including one-year old Baby.
Father’s gun goes off, shooting one of the Children in the head and killing her.
One of the other Children dials 911, not Father.
Father is arrested for manslaughter, endangering a child and tampering with evidence … and released on bail.
Mother’s counsel seeks to have the surviving Children placed into Mother’s care. Father’s counsel seeks to have the surviving Children placed into Father’s care.
Instead, the Court orders that Father have no contact with the two surviving Children for the time being, that Mother continue to be restricted to supervised visitation, and that neither parent have access to Children’s school.
Children are in foster care.
Read more in this Denton [TX] news article: Father accused in girl’s shooting can’t see children.
During a thirty day span between November and December, domestic violence resulted in eighteen deaths in the state of Oregon, including children. The killers all committed suicide when they were through.
Oregon is appointing a special domestic violence prosecutor and working to improve statewide services in domestic violence situations.
Government commentators made the following observations after this run of violence.
It is hoped that these insights will translate into more effective strategies and better outcomes.
Read more in this [Portland, OR] Oregonian editorial: Domestic violence murders: Community and victims cry out for solutions.
California Husband and Wife have two year old and four year old Daughters.
Wife, an attorney, accuses Husband of molesting their older Daughter.
Husband denies the allegation.
Wife files for divorce.
California authorities do not pursue a criminal case against Husband.
Wife and Daughters and maternal Grandmother move from Southern California to Texas.
Wife again seeks prosecution of Husband for the alleged molestation of Daughters.
Husband’s attorney indicates that no experts back up Wife’s allegations against Husband. (Which, if true, is not conclusive.)
California trial court orders Mother to bring Daughters back to California – and indicates that the court plans to award temporary custody of Daughters to Husband’s Sister.
Rather than relinquishing Daughters to Husband’s family and placing them at risk of contact with Husband, either Mother or Grandmother shoots Daughters to death and then shoots the other adult before turning the gun on herself. All are killed.
Although both women have gunshot powder residue on their hands, the weapon is registered to Grandmother and investigators conclude that Grandmother was probably the shooter.
Read more in this Los Angeles KABC-TV 7 news article: Custody dispute suspected in Clemente murders and this Wall Street Journal posting: Investigators: Grandmother Pulled Trigger in Howrey Associate Slaying.
Father has toddler Daughter with Girlfriend.
Father has Other Daughter, also a toddler, with Other Girlfriend.
Daughter and Girlfriend can’t be accounted for.
Then Other Daughter and Other Girlfriend’s bodies are discovered. Shot.
Then, hours later, Daughter and Girlfriend’s bodies are discovered – in Father’s trunk.
A few days later, Father’s body is found, an apparent suicide.
Father has been involved in child support litigation with Girlfriend and Other Girlfriend.
Father has also been unemployed for several months.
Yet another woman had a domestic violence restraining order against Father at the time of his death. That order prohibited Father from having firearms in his possession.
But Father managed to overcome that restriction.
Read more in this Associated Press article: Wis. man linked to 4 slayings charged in 2 deaths and this Wisconsin State Journal article: Murder suspect Tyrone Adair found dead in Cottage Grove.
Mexican Mother is awarded custody of Son by a Mexican court.
Wealthy French Father, accompanied by counsel, takes papers that look like official Mexican court papers before a Texas judge, representing that he has legal custody of Son.
The Mexican court papers were reportedly incomplete and misleading.
Apparently, neither Father’s counsel nor the court verified them.
Texas judge enters pick-up order for Son, with a hearing date scheduled for shortly afterwards.
Law enforcement officers pick up Son, who protests vigorously the entire time, to the effect that Father beats him.
Officers ignore Son’s words.
Mother tries to get Son back at airport.
Son refuses to accompany her – out of fear that Father will kill Mother.
Father absconds with Son.
Not for the first time, according to Mother.
Father and Son miss scheduled court date.
Texas court issues warrant for Father’s arrest on perjury and custodial interference.
That was two months ago.
Father allegedly abducted Son to France for two years, reportedly beating him and leaving him unsupervised and denying any contact at all with Mother.
Read more in this Fox News article: Worldwide Manhunt Under Way for Fugitive Father, Missing Son and this San Antonio Express News article: Dad accused of perjury, kidnapping.
Eleven year old Daughter is ill, finally unable to walk or talk.
Wisconsin Mother and Father, in accordance with their religion, pray for her.
They don’t take her to a doctor or hospital.
Daughter dies from complications of diabetes.
Mother and Father are convicted of second degree reckless homicide.
They are sentenced to thirty days’ confinement for six years and ten years’ probation.
They are also court-ordered to take their other two children to doctors for treatment if injured or ill, and to have periodic wellness checks for the children.
Is Mother’s and Father’s conduct protected religious conduct, or is it child abuse or neglect?
That may not have been clear enough under Wisconsin law.
And so some changes and clarifications are in the works.
Parents should be held to a standard of reasonableness in caring for their children’s health and welfare.
If parents fail to take reasonable measures to provide for their children’s health and welfare, the state can remove the children and intervene in their care… And may prosecute the parents.
The parents’ can tell their side of the story to the jury. But the jury decides how reasonable their actions are.
Read more in this New York Times article: Wisconsin Couple Sentenced in Death of Their Sick Child and this [Milwaukee] Journal Sentinel editorial: Bill would protect children, liberties.
While most people were enjoying a long Thanksgiving holiday with family last weekend, others weren’t enjoying themselves at all.
Even in Ogden, Utah, police report more complaints on Thanksgiving of domestic violence and disputes over timesharing requiring police intervention.
On a broader scale, the University of California recently analyzed 911 calls and concluded that there were sizable increases in them on certain holidays:
The UC study also noted an 8% increase in domestic violence on the occasion of a surprise loss in a professional football game.
And the study also noted an 8%-10% increase in domestic violence on “hot days”.
Too much togetherness, too much alcohol, the stress of the holidays and a weak economy all contribute to the above statistics.
Read more in this Salt Lake City, UT KSTU Fox 13 Now news article: Domestic Violence Calls Rise on Thanksgiving.
There was no reported history of domestic violence in their home during the fifteen years they were married.
Husband didn’t appear like the “violent type”.
But as their relationship fell apart and Wife got involved with another man, Husband started making threats against Wife – and their Children.
Then Husband reportedly began purchasing weapons.
In the end, Husband allegedly shot Wife to death at her job – and injured two of her co-workers. Then Husband killed himself.
The couple’s now-orphaned Children are staying with relatives.
Read more in this [Portland] Oregonian article: Gladstone man’s threats increased through divorce proceedings, wife’s friend says.
Allegedly abusive American Husband goes to China in 2007 to teach English, leaving behind in New York his undocumented Mexican immigrant Wife and their Baby.
Later, Husband contacts Wife and invites her and two year old Baby to China to reconcile.
Within a day of Wife’s and Baby’s arrival, Husband reportedly disappears with Baby. Husband takes up with Chinese Girlfriend.
Husband leaves Baby with a babysitter and fails to pick her up. Baby ends up in a Chinese orphanage. After Husband allegedly abducts her.
Wife and Mexican Embassy official show up where Husband is staying. Husband goes after them both with knives, but is not prosecuted in China.
Wife obtains a New York State court order, awarding her sole custody of Baby.
China is not a party to the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction and does not recognize foreign child custody orders.
Wife obtains a US visa by virtue of being a victim of domestic violence. Husband is deported from China.
Warrant is issued in US and Husband is arrested by US federal authorities for international parental kidnapping.
A combination of US nonprofit agency attorneys, private attorneys, Chinese private investigators, the Mexican consulate in China, the Federal Bureau of Investigation, the US State Department, and Wife’s resourcefulness, initiative and determination culminated in Wife finding Baby, abandoned in the Chinese orphanage.
Read more in this New York Times article: Family Fights Odds, Retrieving Kidnapped Girl.
Police receive anonymous tip indicating that the odor associated with pot is emanating from a certain home.
Police go to investigate.
At the home, police find various drugs … and a Toddler.
Police contact the local child welfare agency (Agency), which takes Toddler into protective custody.
The Agency tests Toddler for drugs.
The test reveals that Toddler has more than one type of illicit drug in his system, including marijuana and methamphetamines.
Toddler’s parents are arrested for felony child abuse.
A juvenile dependency action will presumably be commenced as well to determine a suitable placement for Toddler … for a while. His parents may be otherwise engaged.
Read more in this Albuquerque KRQE CBS TV News 13 article: Parents busted over toddler’s dope test.
Adults and children attend party in a park.
Adults drink alcoholic beverages.
One mother (Driver) reportedly admits to having three or four beers.
Driver, with her four children, decides to take an evening drive, presumably home.
Driver, it later turns out, has a suspended driver’s license.
Driver agrees to take three other children, one year old twins and a two year old, home for another young mother at the party. The younger mother reportedly admits to knowing that Driver is impaired.
Driver also takes a grandfather to some of the children along on the drive and … a friend.
Bringing the head count in the Chrysler PT Cruiser to a grand total of ten people, three adults and seven children.
No child car seats are in use.
While the car is moving, one of the back seat doors allegedly pops open – and two children fall out and roll in the intersection.
As police pursue the car, a third child falls out of the car and rolls on the street.
Driver is charged with DUI, driving with a suspended license, driving at night without headlights on, having seven unrestrained children in a car, endangerment of seven children, and having an open container of an alcoholic beverage in the car.
The absent mother who asked Driver to drive her three children home is charged with child endangerment as well.
The adult friend, who is taken into custody with an open beer in his possession, is also charged with child endangerment.
Two of the injured children, the baby twins, are initially in critical condition, but later improve.
All seven children have been placed into child protective custody.
Read more in this Las Vegas Review Journal article: MOTHERS CHARGED: Man saw kids, alerted police – Three children fell from car and this Las Vegas Fox 5 TV News article: Police: Mother Left Kids With Drunk Driver – Officer Saw Child Fall From Car.
Seventeen year old Florida Girlfriend has infant (Baby).
Despite a difficult childhood, Girlfriend reportedly tries hard to be a good mother.
Girlfriend has boyfriend (Boyfriend), who moves in with Baby and her.
Girlfriend becomes afraid of Boyfriend.
Twenty-one year old Boyfriend has considerable domestic violence arrest history.
Girlfriend seeks order of protection, but doesn’t properly follow through.
Girlfriends takes some measures to try to protect Baby.
Baby’s body is found on an Interstate.
Authorities believe Boyfriend threw Baby out of a car on the highway.
Boyfriend is on trial for first degree murder in Baby’s death.
While in court, Boyfriend allegedly waves to Girlfriend and tells her “I love you”.
Girlfriend complains.
Judge orders Boyfriend not to communicate with Girlfriend.
Boyfriend’s defense will apparently be based, at least in part, on the fact that Girlfriend spent some of her childhood in foster care and received child welfare services, and was committed for three days’ of mental health observation when she was nine years old.
Read more in this Tampa Bay [FL] Fox 13 TV news article: Judge orders McTear to avoid baby’s mom and this St. Petersburg [FL] Times article: Mother of slain baby Emanuel Murray: ‘I can’t believe he’s gone’.
October was first recognized as Domestic Violence Awareness Month twenty-two years ago.
Twenty-two years later, here in Florida, two different mothers and their respective children are murdered in domestic violence incidents.
Both families have histories of domestic violence.
Clearly, the problem of domestic violence is far from solved.
What are we doing wrong?
Professionals working with victims must learn to properly assess the degree of danger in each case.
And, regardless, professionals must also be able to provide each victim with an effective, custom safety plan.
These two measures should go a long way toward reducing domestic violence fatalities (and injuries).
Hopefully, these milestones won’t take another twenty-two years of awareness to accomplish.
Read more in this Ft. Myers [FL] News Press article: Better protection needed against domestic violence.
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, as I’ve previously posted.
A UK Husband allegedly pursued his fleeing Wife, each in their own respective cars. Husband rammed Wife’s car and then set it on fire.
Husband was arrested and confined until trial.
Wife was too terrified to testify against Husband at trial.
So Wife, the victim, was put in jail for contempt of court, while Husband was at large.
Because of Wife’s silence, Husband was convicted only of threatening behavior and damaging property.
At the conclusion of his trial, Husband was released due to time already served.
Read more in this UK Mirror article: Scared wife put in cells for ‘contempt of court’ during domestic abuse trial as husband walks free.
Four women and one man live in Mississippi House with as many as ten Children.
The House is filthy and blood-stained. The walls are covered by graffiti. Dirty clothes are in piles.
The landlord reacts, “I’ve never seen human beings live like this.” He has served eviction papers on the residents.
One of the Children, a four year old Boy, is now in the hospital, in critical condition. He has internal injuries, broken teeth and damaged gums.
The other nine Children have been taken into child protective custody by the local child welfare agency.
It does not appear that any of the adults living in the House are parents of the Boy. Authorities are looking for them.
The adult residents of the House have all been arrested on felony child abuse charges and are confined.
Read more in this Hattiesburg [MS] American article: 5 face child abuse charges.
“Panic rooms”, rooms intended to be secure, even impregnable, were conceived to offer protection to homeowners in the event of a break-in by potentially violent intruders.
The doors to the rooms are extra thick and strong, and can’t be kicked down.
In a county in Wales, UK, homes of high-risk victims of domestic violence are now being equipped with panic rooms, re-dubbed “sanctuary rooms”.
The special rooms have “good neighbour alarms” which, if triggered, alert neighbors to call police.
A domestic abuse advocate believes the sanctuary room has given at least one homeowner her best night’s sleep in years, by finally relieving her domestic abuse-induced terror in her own home.
A person should be able to find sanctuary in their own home.
Unfortunately, though, this sanctuary ends at the door where the victim leaves their home.
Read more in this South Wales [UK] Echo article: ‘Panic rooms’ being built for Caerphilly domestic abuse victims.
Wisconsin Mother and Texas Father have been involved in lengthy child custody case over 4 year old Son.
Along the way, Father is held in contempt of court, with potential for jail time.
Custody evaluations by Wisconsin and Texas social workers are very close to being filed with the court. Father reportedly knows the recommendation of the Texas social worker.
Mother is stabbed to death at home. Son is at the home at the time.
Father is a suspect in the murder.
Son is with relatives in Wisconsin.
Read more in this Milwaukee Wisconsin Journal Sentinel article: Stabbing victim was involved in custody fight.
Lancaster, PA. Small town USA. Wholesome. Close to Amish country.
Where an affluent, 40-something member (Husband) of a successful funeral home-owning family lived with his Wife and four Children.
The Man had a string of affairs, finally becoming obsessed with one of them (Mistress).
And so, Man allegedly strangled, beat and then drowned Wife, to get her out of the way.
Man planned to marry Mistress. And divorce is such a bother.
Even after his arrest and during his trial, Man continued his obsessive e-mails and calls with Mistress, looking forward to their future together.
And now Man stands convicted of first degree murder, sentenced to life in prison without parole.
Children, now orphans, in effect, are living with relatives.
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
Domestic violence is not a problem limited to any particular economic status, social status, ethnic status or geographic location.
It can happen to anyone, anywhere … by anyone.
Just ask Man’s family.
Read more in this Lancaster [PA] Intelligencer Journal article: Roseboro sentence imposed.
Husband is a senior banking executive.
After fifteen years of marriage, Husband, Wife and Children appear to be living the good life.
Except Husband is having an affair.
And so is Wife. Two actually.
But Husband is possessive and unwilling to lose what he has worked to obtain.
Wife is mindful of her “entitlements” under the law and wants custody of their Children.
Husband begins diverting lots of money to separate accounts.
Husband taps into Wife’s e-mails and text messages.
Husband tape records hours upon hours of Wife’s conversations with her lovers.
And finally, Husband allegedly strangles Wife to death.
Husband apparently claims self-defense.
Wife’s body bears bruises practically all over.
Read more in this UK Times article: Bank boss ’strangled his wife after discovering two affairs’.
Two year old Son had developmental delays and a deformity of his head.
Allegedly because Father shook him – twice – when he was just two months old.
For that, Father was sentenced to four years of probation … after pleading guilty to felony child abuse.
And given custody of Son in 2007.
Father’s household generated five new allegations of child abuse or neglect in 2007.
And still Father had custody of Son.
Father took Son to doctor to check a shunt placed in Son’s head after he was shaken.
Son didn’t cooperate and his appointment was rescheduled.
Father apparently wasn’t happy. A nurse reported sounds like a spanking.
That night, Father’s wife heard Son screaming.
Son died of blunt force trauma to the head shortly afterward.
Now, Father has been arrested in Son’s death and charged with second degree murder, child abuse and probation violation.
Two babies have been removed from Father’s home since last year.
Read more in this Las Vegas Review-Journal article: Las Vegas man arrested in 2007 death of his toddler son.
Victims of domestic violence in California are finding it less hospitable than ever to live there.
Faced with severe budget deficits, the governor virtually eliminated the budget previously allocated to services to victims of domestic violence.
The magnitude of the cutbacks far outstrips other struggling states.
Now shelters are feeling the same level of desperation as their charges.
Some have closed. Some of reduced staff. Some have scaled back their facilities. Some have scaled back their operations.
The result: victims fleeing domestic violence, often mothers with children in tow, are being turned away.
The situation is especially bleak in rural communities.
This is an especially bitter pill for victims of domestic violence to swallow in the midst of this recession.
High unemployment, many foreclosures, tight credit, fuel high tensions which tend to trigger domestic violence incidents.
Some federal aid, combined with private donations, is helping to keep some services going that would otherwise have been shut down.
But advocates for domestic violence victims, and victims themselves, worry for how long.
Read more in this New York Times article: Cuts Ravage California Domestic Abuse Program.
New Hampshire Girlfriend and Boyfriend are at home, apparently having a disagreement about something.
Girlfriend allegedly pursues Boyfriend around the kitchen, brandishing a knife.
Boyfriend calls the police for assistance.
Police arrive.
Girlfriend allegedly pushes and strikes one or more police officers with her hand and with glass.
Girlfriend allegedly bites a police officer on the arm.
Police make to arrest Girlfriend.
At which point Boyfriend reportedly changes sides and seeks to protect Girlfriend. (Not unusual in domestic violence incidents.)
Boyfriend is arrested on charges of resisting arrest.
Girlfriend is arrested on multiple counts, including assaulting a police officer, resisting arrest and disorderly conduct.
Boyfriend is not confined.
Girlfriend is out on bail.
A no-contact order, a criminal law variant of an order of protection, is entered to protect Boyfriend from Girlfriend.
Read more in this New Hampshire Union Leader article: Woman will be tested for diseases after charge of biting a police officer.
Who has a domestic violence restraining order entered against them?
Who violates an order of protection that has been entered against them?
Not just the stereotypical abusers that many people may think of. In fact, it could be anyone.
Take, for example, the principal of a high school in Illinois (Principal), a seemingly unlikely subject of an injunction for protection against domestic violence.
A domestic violence restraining order was nonetheless entered against Principal to protect his ex-wife.
The order of protection prohibited Principal from approaching her home, drinking or frequenting bars.
Just a couple of months after its entry, Principal pleaded guilty to violating the domestic violence restraining order in the vicinity of his former wife’s home.
Principal spent thirty-four days in confinement, and was sentenced to two years’ probation.
Principal resigned from his job after his arrest.
Read more in this [central Illinois] Pantagraph article: Ex-Pontiac high school official gets probation.
Central Florida Husband is reportedly having an affair about which Wife found out.
Husband is a police officer.
During an argument, Wife refers to Husband’s paramour by an unflattering name.
Husband allegedly drags Wife out of bed into the kitchen, where he smashes her head against a granite countertop.
Leaving Wife with a bump on her head and a bruise on her arm.
Police officer-Husband is arrested for domestic battery on Wife and confined.
Law enforcement takes possession of Husband’s guns.
Husband is suspended with pay.
It is not clear whether a Florida domestic violence restraining order or order of protection is also entered against Husband.
It would certainly not be unexpected for Wife to seek and obtain a Florida injunction for protection against domestic violence in addition to pressing criminal domestic violence charges against her police officer-Husband.
Read more in this Orlando Sentinel article: Casselberry officer arrested on domestic-violence charge.
Just a year and a half ago, police contacted an Arizona family to warn them that their minor Daughter’s Boyfriend had threatened to end her life and then commit suicide himself.
Quite reasonably, the family immediately applied for a domestic violence restraining order or order of protection against the Boyfriend.
But Arizona law did not allow for injunctions for protection against domestic violence by someone who was only a dating partner without cohabitation or common children.
Less than a week later, true to his word, the Boyfriend had killed the Daughter and himself.
Due to Daughter’s story, Arizona has since instituted domestic violence restraining orders against a casual dating partner.
And just one death threat can earn an aggressor an injunction for protection against domestic violence.
The Arizona law seemingly makes it easier to get an order of protection there than here in Florida.
Each day, at least three women and one man are killed by domestic violence, according to the Domestic Violence Resource Center.
Read more in this [Phoenix] College Times article: New Arizona law aims to curb dating violence.
New York State issues Amber Alert for two missing children based on Father’s allegation that Mother, a Texas woman, abducted them.
Mother is taken into custody in Virginia. Now she awaits extradition.
Problem is, the New York state prosecutor’s office has no proof other than Father’s word that Father has sole custody of the children.
Father produced an expired domestic violence restraining order, or order of protection, prohibiting contact between Mother and the children.
New York authorities have so far gotten no response from the Texas courts and the parties’ respective Texas attorneys regarding custody orders entered in Texas.
New York authorities may have to resort to serving the Texas courts with a court order to produce the documents.
All authorities know now is that a final judgment was entered in Texas.
For the moment, Mother is charged with custodial interference.
The charges could be expanded or gutted when the New York prosecutors receive the Texas custody orders. Father could potentially face charges as well, depending what the Texas orders provide.
Read more in this Utica [NY] Observer-Dispatch article: Local officials have one week to decide on extraditing suspect in abduction.
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