The divorce rate is declining. The marriage rate is too.

But one family-related statistic isn’t decreasing:

The percentage of all US births that are out-of-wedlock, at least those to mothers under the age of thirty (who represent two-thirds of all births).

Nationwide, that percentage has climbed to a solid majority of births, fifty-three (53%) percent.

In some communities, such as Lorain, Ohio, the percentage has risen to sixty-three (63%) percent.

Many reasons have been cited for these sweeping social changes:

1. Men perceive divorce law as inequitable and burdensome to them.

2. And women increasingly view men as, at best, unreliable noncontributors to their families, economically and otherwise. And, at worst, denizens of the criminal element.

3. Perhaps interestingly, some blame these social changes on the government-furnished safety net inspiring irresponsibility and unaccountability, more than the recession.

A local family court judge invokes the case of a man with nine out-of-wedlock children … by six different mothers. And his mounting child support arrearages.

On the other hand, in years gone by, as many as one-third of marriages may have been precipitated by accidental pregnanies – at a time when pregnancy stigmatized an unwed mother.

What does all this mean for the Florida family courts (and other states’ family courts)? Fewer divorce cases. More child support-only cases and more child custody cases, called paternity cases.

Read more in

• this New York Times article: Young Mothers Describe Marriage’s Fading Allure

• this New York Times slideshow: And Baby Makes Two and

• this New York Times article: For Women Under 30, Most Births Occur Outside Marriage

Husband allegedly pushes Wife onto couch. And places his hands on her throat.

Husband also allegedly pulls his hand back aiming to deliver a blow … but doesn’t.

Husband is arrested on a misdemeanor domestic battery charge.

Husband is summoned before a Broward County, Florida criminal domestic violence judge for his so-called “first appearance”. Release on bond may be addressed at this brief hearing.

But in this particular case, the presiding criminal domestic violence judge reportedly goes a lot farther and all but tries this case on its merits. Finding that the alleged violence is “very minor” and concluding that Wife is not in danger … because Wife testifies – in her Husband’s presence – that “she [does] not fear for her life”.

Accordingly, the criminal domestic violence judge orders Husband to buy Wife flowers and a card, and then to take her out to dinner, followed by a game of bowling. The criminal domestic violence judge also orders marriage counseling.

It is not entirely clear whether Wife is under court order to accompany Husband to dinner and bowling, let alone marriage counseling.

The head of a leading nonprofit association serving victims of domestic violence has publicly condemned the unorthodox and controversial rulings by the criminal domestic violence judge.

One thing is certain: Every newly charged domestic violence defendant in Broward County will be asking their criminal domestic violence attorney if they can have their criminal domestic violence case before this criminal domestic violence judge. But, unfortunately for criminal domestic violence defendants, the answer is no.

Read more in

• this CBS TV 4 Miami news article: Domestic Violence Organization Reacts To Judge’s Unusual Ruling

• this [Broward and Palm Beach counties] New Times piece: Judge Sends Alleged Domestic Abuser on Date With Wife; Sun-Sentinel Thinks It’s Adorable

• this [Miami] Local 10 news article: Judge orders husband to dinner date with wife

It is not uncommon for either or both spouses to enter the marriage owning separate premarital property.

What happens with that premarital property during their marriages varies widely from couple to couple.

As to one couple, the titleholding spouse may keep the title separate, pay any loans or expenses for the property from a separate account funded with separate premarital funds and keep any income generated by the property in a separate account for entirely nonmarital use.

As to another couple, at the other end of the spectrum, things may be more complicated. Maybe the other spouse contributed toward expenses of the premarital property. Or perhaps they contributed time, energy and skill to make improvements to the premarital property.

In either case, the question must be asked: has the premarital property actually increased in value over the course of the marriage?

Possible considerations. If so, how and why? General appreciation of the market? Specific improvements made to the property? Who did the work? How was it paid for?

These are examples of the kinds of situations and questions that have made addressing separate premarital property quite complex in the event the couple later divorces in Florida.

Up until 2010, Florida case law was all over the ballpark and tended to vary from one region (technically known as a judicial “district”) of the state to another, making outcomes in family court often unpredictable and inconsistent across Florida.

But the treatment of premarital property in divorce court was finally settled in an important Florida Supreme Court decision in 2010, and now the law is uniform throughout the state of Florida.

Passive, market-driven appreciation during the marriage of separate premarital property in Florida is now considered marital property that should be divided between spouses in a divorce.

It is key to recognize that this new rule applies only to the appreciation of the premarital property, not to the entire value of the property as a whole. At least one spouse often glosses over this significant distinction.

And for anyone potentially impacted by this – or any other – dramatic change in the law, another takeaway lesson is that it is important never to lose sight of all of the particular facts and circumstances of your case.

As an example, I recently tried a case in which my client had purchased the marital home prior to the marriage, but had paid the mortgage with his salary earned during the marriage. Legally, considered marital funds.

Not surprisingly, the opposing party claimed an interest in the marital home. Half of the entire value of it. And my client’s goal was to defeat his spouse’s claim to any part of the home.

At first blush, my client’s goal might have seemed unattainable in light of the Florida Supreme Court case discussed here. That was certainly our family court’s initial take on the situation at trial.

But my client’s divorce court case had been filed by his spouse prior to rendering of this new divorce law ruling. When the family law in our particular district in Florida, the fourth district, still favored my client’s position.

So, I argued at trial in family court that the new Florida Supreme Court decision entered after my client’s case was filed should not apply to my client’s case.

And, after hearing my argument, the trial court in family court agreed with me.

And my client got to retain the full value of their marital home as his separate premarital property.

Read more in this Florida Supreme case on property division of premarital property in divorce.